Whenwe talk about the development of the personality Language plays very essential role.According to Jeffery Gorrell, “Representingand expressing the world around him a person use language to convey his processof thinking.” Language shows the internal thinking process of a person, outerimage which is effective in impressing other people.
In actual language is themain thing on which personality depends or define your personality. Mediumwhich indicates our thoughts process, opinion and feelings is language.Benjaminelec whorf once said,” language is thebest show man put on it’s the characteristic of one person or extended meansman has of understanding and represent his experiences.” Language allow usto categorize things by understanding the world. Children’s are better inunderstand or categorizing thing in groups. So those people who have lost theirlanguage skills are unable to categorize things.
Body Language and Personality Bodylanguage plays very important role in developing the personality of theindividual. It is the form of non-verbal communication which include gesturesand postures, expression etc. For the development of the effective personalityor to improve personality one should do practice to convert his body languagein that way which attracts others towards you and that body language changesyour personality in positive ways. Basic Do’s for Body LanguageThese are justsome of the different body language examples that you one should follow.Onething that is very important in effective personality development is gesture and postures. You need to sitor stand properly and maintain your postures while communicating with others ina way that shows your interest in the conversation.
When you are pointing thefinger at the head or by tapping the head, anybody can catch its meaning. In ourpostures whole orientation of the body is involved.Anotherform of body language is through facialexpressions. E.g. when we tend to greet someone we like with a smile, afrown when we puzzled or don’t know about the person or the thing and scowl ifangry.
Eye contact or direct gazewith other person is a sign of respect. The tone of the voice in which someonetalk expresses his personality.Don’ts for Body LanguageLongeye contact or staring at someone shows negativity of our personality.
It shouldmust be avoid. While interacting with others some people get too closer thathas also negative effect on others, one should have maintained the difference betweenhimself and the others person. ConclusionPersonalitydevelopment depends on the language we use, either in written form or spoken.Language we use lead our opinion towards negative or positive.
Language notonly develops personality of the person, but also language more than oneadvanced the cognitive skills and the develop the personality of the personsocially to communicate with others. It is the language and speaking power thatdiscriminate from animal species. For effective personality there is a need toimprove the verbal as well as non-verbal communication, also need to be moreconfident. No one is a great speaker by birth. One can be a great speaker afterthe practice or by doing hard to improve their skills so that one can perceivetheir personality as positive.